Session 3
Journey to the Inner Self
In a disenchanted age, meaning is often discovered inward.
In a world stripped of enchantment, meaning is often discovered not in external achievements but by journeying inward. We're invited to step back from our relentless striving and "simply listen" to the stillness within. As one reflection puts it, "meaning isn't made, purpose isn't chosen, identity isn't constructed". In other words, we don't need to fabricate meaning or constantly perform an identity. Instead, we make space -- quieting the noise around and inside us -- to allow whatever naturally wants to emerge. This inner journey isn't about following a map; it's about honest curiosity toward our own psyche. By exploring our depths with patience and honesty, we begin to reconnect with a sense of wholeness that has always been within us, waiting to be noticed.
Reflection Prompts
- What do you usually look to for meaning in life? How might it change if you also looked inward for guidance?
- Notice one strong habit or goal you try to achieve. How would it feel to let go of striving in that area, even briefly?
The Depths of the Psyche
Our minds are layered. There is the conscious part -- everything we are aware of right now -- and beneath that lies our personal unconscious, made of our forgotten memories and feelings. Deeper still is the collective unconscious -- a reservoir of symbols and instincts inherited across generations. Jung described the collective unconscious as the stuff "in our blood" or DNA, a shared inner landscape that contains universal images and ideas. These universal themes -- archetypes like the Hero, the Mother, or the Trickster -- quietly shape how we see the world and ourselves. We meet them in myths, dreams, and art.
The process of individuation is the work of integrating these layers into a coherent self. It means bringing the unknown parts of us into awareness, making the unconscious conscious. This is why, as Jung emphasized, confronting the shadow -- the aspects of ourselves we've disowned or repressed -- is so crucial. When we integrate our shadow rather than deny it, we move toward wholeness.
In practical terms, this means paying attention to dreams, unexpected emotions, or inner voices we normally ignore. These disparate aspects of our psyche hold vital meaning; Jung says individuation is about unifying them into a whole, cohesive Self.
Reflection Prompts
- What recurring symbols, themes, or feelings have you noticed in your dreams or daydreams? What might they be pointing toward?
- Think of a quality in yourself you tend to reject or ignore (anger, shyness, ambition, etc.). How might embracing that shadow side contribute to a fuller sense of who you are?
Active Imagination and Dreamwork
One powerful way to meet the unconscious is through active imagination. Jung invented this practice so we can engage our inner images in waking life, not just in sleep. To begin, find a quiet space and relax your mind (focusing on the breath often helps). Then bring to mind an image that feels significant -- maybe a figure, scene, or symbol that has appeared in your dreams or popped into your thoughts. Simply sit with that image and observe what happens. Do not try to force it or control it; instead wait for it to shift or speak on its own.
Jung likened the unconscious to a silent witness within us, so we allow that inner witness to guide the image's unfolding. As the image evolves, you are essentially dreaming the dream forward. Notice any narratives, dialogues, or feelings that arise. Keep a record of these (write them down or speak them into a recorder).
Jung recommends treating it like a dream journal: the unfolding story, when captured over time, reveals underlying patterns. This process strengthens our awareness of different self-aspects -- the conscious "I" and the deeper parts -- and helps us see how they relate. Over sessions of active imagination, you'll often come to insights about personal conflicts, desires, or fears that are otherwise hard to reach. In Jung's own life, this technique became the core of his work (seen famously in his Red Book).
Reflection Prompts
- Try a short active imagination: relax and picture a simple image (a landscape, animal, or object). Let it change for a few moments and jot down anything that emerged. What new details or emotions appeared? How did the scene make you feel?
- If you keep a dream journal, read through a recent entry. Can you pick out any symbols or themes? If not, try writing down the feeling tones of the dream (fear, wonder, guilt). What might your unconscious be hinting at through them?
Meditation and Mindful Listening
Alongside imaginative work, quiet sitting and listening exercises can open a window to the inner world. This isn't about achieving a certain state or clearing the mind of thoughts. In fact, as one guide suggests, there is "no technique, nothing to know -- all there is, is sitting and listening". Find a comfortable posture and simply be with whatever arises. Notice the sounds around you (the wind, distant traffic, or even your own breathing) and the sensations in your body. Observe your thoughts and feelings as they come and go -- without chasing them away or diving into them.
You might feel internal resistance, or an urge to solve problems while meditating, but try not to do anything. If a tension or emotion surfaces (like anxiety or anger), gently focus on the sensation itself. As the practice notes, when we focus on the emotive quality of a feeling, it often softens and dissolves. This is different from analyzing why we feel it -- we simply attend to it with openness.
Over time, this listening attitude quiets the tyranny of the ego. Remember: this is sitting, not striving. As the advice goes, do not strive, simply listen. In this gentle awareness we begin to perceive our thoughts and self-image as passing events, not the whole story.
Reflection Prompts
- Set a timer for 5 minutes and sit quietly. Notice each sound around you and each breath you take. What did you become aware of? How did your body feel? Don't judge or change anything, just observe.
- Take one worry or question you've been ruminating on. Sit and let it be as an unfocused thought. Notice any feelings it brings up in your body (tightness, tension, warmth). Can you listen to it without trying to fix it? What happens when you do?
Creative Expression and Journaling
Meeting the inner self can also happen through creative means. Jung called art and play extensions of active imagination. Writing, painting, music, or movement can give form to what's stirring inside. For example, if you have a strong feeling -- fear, joy, confusion -- try expressing it with crayons or clay without planning. Let images or words flow spontaneously. As in active imagination, the key is to let the unconscious lead. Jungians say to allow the archetype to work through you rather than forcing an outcome.
Journaling is a simple, powerful form of this. Every morning or evening, take a few minutes to write stream-of-consciousness: no editing, no topic needed. You might start with a prompt ("What is on my mind?") but then just let the words pour. Often unexpected thoughts and feelings emerge on the page. Similarly, keeping a dream journal is invaluable. Writing down even fragments of dreams can reveal patterns. Over time you may spot the same symbols or scenarios -- these repeats often signal something your psyche considers important.
After collecting creative output (notes, sketches, poems), return to them and look for meaning. Jung suggested comparing these fragments to myths, fairy tales, or books -- any stories that might resonate. This amplification helps us interpret what our unconscious is trying to teach us.
Reflection Prompts
- Spend 5 minutes doodling or writing about a question: "Who am I, really?" without censoring. What images or phrases came to you? Did anything surprise you?
- If you dream, choose one dream and spend a few minutes writing it out in detail. Then, note the strongest emotions in that dream. Do any mythic stories or personal memories echo those images or feelings?
Integration and Honest Presence
Finally, remember that the inner journey is not a task with an end point. It's a continual path of honesty with ourselves. There is no hidden truer self waiting to be excavated with force. Rather, life within us unfolds its own trajectory when we stop trying to manufacture meaning. As the writer notes, step back, and stay back from the cultural push to become or achieve.
In practice, this means bringing a gentle curiosity to whatever our exercises reveal. If anger, grief, or desire surfaces, we welcome it instead of fleeing. If nothing seems to happen, that is fine too -- silence itself can be fertile. Over time, small threads from our practices weave into daily life. Perhaps a dream image begins to shed light on a waking choice, or a meditation insight softens a nagging worry.
By repeatedly giving our inner voices space, we gradually reclaim a sense of wholeness. We see, as Jung taught, that the self is more than the ego's definitions -- it is an evolving center that can hold it all.
Reflection Prompts
- What inner content (a feeling, thought, or image) have you tended to avoid? Can you sit with it for a moment now and describe it without trying to change it?
- As you conclude this session, notice your state of mind. Has anything felt different after these practices, even slightly more open or calm? What might be a simple step to continue this work this week?
Take these practices one at a time, and be gentle with yourself. Meeting the inner self is an act of courage and honesty. Through it, even in a disenchanted age, we can find a living, breathing source of meaning within.
Sources: Insights drawn from Jungian psychology and contemplative practice, as well as guided exercises in active imagination and listening meditation. Each citation points to detailed discussions of these methods and their purposes.